Approaching the 9/10's
Definitely been recurring question for the intermediates and even the beginners that are looking to broaden their horizon.
I forget who says it but the PUA approach for the ridiculously hot chicks is that they're actually easier to approach because they never get approached and therefore they''ll be more lenient. I will definitely have to respectfully disagree with this.
Having 9/10's at the venue is definitely a great thing, just ask your pivots, there's always some level of jealousy going on there because now they're even lower on the totem pole.
So first thing..... let's not put the pussy on the pedestal here, of course this is a over-generalization or perhaps its just my personal biased that's developed from living in L.A for a year, but for the most part, there's definitely a negative correlation between looks and charm/wit/social intelligence. I know it's difficult/intimidating these sets to begin with, but if you put it all in the proper perspective, it definitely makes it easier. After you've approached enough of these sets, you'll realize that most 9/10's aren't that much different than the fat single child who's been fed a silver spoon his/her entire life. Gorgeous women have that power, they know that they can make men do just about everything for them and of course, most of them exploit this. So instead of lining up and being that next ass-kisser, take a different approach.
That's the key thing to consider, no matter what the set is, you always want to offer something unique, something different, you want to offer them a reason to keep listening; think of it like a sale. For the 10's, the ones that KNOW that they're hot and that they're sh*t, I would make a case that just going plain direct wouldn't be that effective, only because they'll mentally respond with:
"Well no crap, this isn't news to me, 9 guys have already told me that tonight"
Being high energy and fun is EXTREMELY important. This is something unique, a good bulk of guys can't offer (especially AFC's) can't offer this because they're too nervous or whatever. So... not breaking precedence here, you want to offer her something different/unique and that could be your ticket in.
"Well no crap, this isn't news to me, 9 guys have already told me that tonight"
Being high energy and fun is EXTREMELY important. This is something unique, a good bulk of guys can't offer (especially AFC's) can't offer this because they're too nervous or whatever. So... not breaking precedence here, you want to offer her something different/unique and that could be your ticket in.
So here's an example of a pick up I did in my last bootcamp
Something I learned from Johnny in one of my first bootcamps was to be very alpha and direct when it comes to conducting yourself at the bar. Back when I was coaching back in Boston, I was trying to order a drink and of course, being the complete ass (of course only in field) that I am, I totally cut in front of everyone including this super gorgeous HB9 brunette.
HB9: Hey, I'm in line here
Me: Yeah, I can see that *give her a giant cheesedick smile and turn back around*
HB9: Well I was in front of you
Me: Umm.... actually, you WERE in front of me, past tense. And now, I'm in FRONT of you. I like being on top
HB9: *laughs with a little bit of frustration*
Me: Seriously, like, what would you do anyway, like throw a box of tampons at my head? I mean, you're a chick, you can't even vote in most countries. (conveyed extremely playfully)
HB9: what??? I would soooo kick your ass
Me: In what? Pilates?
So we banter back forth for a little longer and I actually let her slap me once, which then of course gave me an excuse to smack her in the ass.
So there you go, I gave her something different, I wasn't the 23984039th guy to walk to up to her begging for her attention. I gave her a playful argument and some playful drama instead and for her, it's a splash of variety.
In anycase, I was working with a client that night, so I had to redirect my attention, but that set wouldn't have been to difficult to close out.
Something I learned from Johnny in one of my first bootcamps was to be very alpha and direct when it comes to conducting yourself at the bar. Back when I was coaching back in Boston, I was trying to order a drink and of course, being the complete ass (of course only in field) that I am, I totally cut in front of everyone including this super gorgeous HB9 brunette.
HB9: Hey, I'm in line here
Me: Yeah, I can see that *give her a giant cheesedick smile and turn back around*
HB9: Well I was in front of you
Me: Umm.... actually, you WERE in front of me, past tense. And now, I'm in FRONT of you. I like being on top
HB9: *laughs with a little bit of frustration*
Me: Seriously, like, what would you do anyway, like throw a box of tampons at my head? I mean, you're a chick, you can't even vote in most countries. (conveyed extremely playfully)
HB9: what??? I would soooo kick your ass
Me: In what? Pilates?
So we banter back forth for a little longer and I actually let her slap me once, which then of course gave me an excuse to smack her in the ass.
So there you go, I gave her something different, I wasn't the 23984039th guy to walk to up to her begging for her attention. I gave her a playful argument and some playful drama instead and for her, it's a splash of variety.
In anycase, I was working with a client that night, so I had to redirect my attention, but that set wouldn't have been to difficult to close out.
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