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So I've been working with a client and right in the very beginning when I'm trying to outfit the man with some training wheels (canned material), he immediately spits it back at me and tell ms, "I can't do this, I can't lie to a girl". And at this point, I think to myself "are you kidding me". We actually spent 30 minutes going over ethics and the way in which we both treat people and by the end we did come to a meeting of minds.

So this client definitely falls under the "Nice Guy" category, he's entirely honest about everything and since he is slightly religious he has the hardest time lying, even if it's small. 

I also have another client that has a slight reservation about his age. He's in his early thirties and while he looks like he's 25, he'll still tell younger girls that he's older and the response isn't favorable 9 times out of 10.

So before I dig too deep into the situation, I think its unianimously agreed to that women will lie to you, especially if you just met them. Half the time when they're "going to the bathroom" they're just trying to get away from you because you messed up your approach. Is that a lie? Technically yes. Is it justified? I'd say so, tactically it's a great passive-aggressive way of getting away from creepy guys.

So here, before you prod to deep into my personal ethics. I do believe that when it comes to close family and friends, you should always treat them with dignity and respect and do all those wonderful things that your mother taught you when you were 5. In cold approach pickup, not so much.

I always tell me clients to treat pick up the exact same way they were treat a job interview or a sale. If you've never lied or exaggerated in a job interview before, well then, you're lying right there, that or your currently undercompensated for your efforts. So by all means, when you're running a cold approach set, you owe absolutely nothing to the girl and she owes absolutely nothing to you, so by all means.... embellish and exaggerate all you want as long you have plenty of plausible deniability to provide backing.

Remember (especially if you're just starting out), you're here for one reason, you're here to learn game, not to meet best friends or a girlfriend for that matter. You're here to hone your skills so that when you finally see that cute girl at starbucks or at the gym, you'll know what to do instead of just walk past her. 

Anyways, I'm not going to say that I'm jesus or that my ethics are absolutely perfect, but if you're really uptight about what you can and cannot say to a girl, you may want to re-evaluate before you proceed any further because you'll find yourself hitting obstacles that most guys won't and will be making it that much tougher for yourself.

And while I won't name names here, there is a guy from season 2 of the show that fits perfectly into this description and what do you know, he's made NO progress and is still a virgin despite the fact that he's been presented a world of knowledge and opportunity.