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Maybe this is just a little phenomenon that I've picked out in between my peers, but it's really aroused my curiosity.

For me personally, I'm into caucasian girls. Not trying to be a racist and it's not that I despise women of other races, but I'm just not attracted to them for whatever reason. It doesn't really make too much sense to me by any standard since I'm asian myself and that in it of itself should make me attracted to asian girls, no? I mean, if it were last generation and i were born and lived in asia, would i just be a virgin my entire life?

I've also met a lot of other asian guys like myself that only date cauasian women. For me personally, I'd attribute a lot of it to growing up in a pre-dominantly white community, one with a heavy jewish demographic, which oddly enough, I'm really attracted to jewish girls. it's just odd how it has affected my preferences and how it's carried on over even to adult hood.

I've actually tried experimenting with asian girls in the past, just thought it'd be a good resume builder.

i remember this one night almost a year ago, I had an asian girl who was really into me and I was single and "on the prowl" at the time. She wasn't bad looking by any standard. I remember kissing her and escalating and it just felt totally empty. She may as well have been a blow up doll.

Something else a little off topic but on topic i've noticed is that with Indian asians, they tend to date in their own ethnic boundaries. i mean, asian(oriental)-white couples are rare as is but I now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever seen an Indian-white couple ever in my life.

Perhaps I'm just drawing from a small pool here, but the Indian friends I do have only date in their own ethnic group and they do seem a little clicky. I'm wondering if this is due to parental upbringing, etc etc.

Speaking of parental upbringing, I think asians in general have a hard time dating in western culture. Although my parents will a little lenient with me with dating when I was growing up, they never really taught me anything about it, everything I knew came from television. I remember sitting in the car with my dad one day and just told me to be sure to use a condom before i did the deed. It was awkward and the only extent of a birds and bees conversation I had with my dad.

I saw my uncle for the first time in a while and my younger female cousin is getting to be about that age, and I asked her if she had been "hussling" boy at school. She got all blushy as most girls would and my uncle went nuts. He told me not to put those toxic thoughts into her head and that dating is a total waste of time and that she should be focused strictly on school and only school until she was out of college or grad school.

I found that to be a litle ridiculous, dating is an essential life experience, and to put it off until such a late time of life, I would argue is actually detrimental to a person's upbringing.

I think my uncle is representative of a prototypical asian parent in western society. They're so stoked about having their kid grow up in an affluent place, that they pool all their resources in that one category and neglect the rest.

For women, I would argue it isn't as bad, since women get hit on and typically aren't responsible for escalating a relatonship, but I find this extremely damaging for asian men. Of my good asian friends, all of whom are in college or graduated, they've never been kissed, never held a relationship, and obviously are still virgins and the odd thing is that they're okay with it.

I have a childhood friend that currently goes to a really prestigious school and has an amazing GPA ( go figure ), I asked him how life was and the only thing he talked about for the first 45 minutes was how he got a B in a math class. I mean come on, I mean I'm asian and even I can relate how life and death it can be when it comes to math but that's all he had to talk about. He's almost in his mid twenties and he's never even considered dating a girl.

That's a bit of an extreme example, but I honestly wonder how guys like that go through life and ignore their impulses.